1) Do you have the marriage license yet?
2) What are the names of the grandparents? Will they be there?
3) What are the names of your grandparents? Will they be there? 3. What are the names of your parents? Will they be there?
4) What are the names of your groomsman and bridesmaids? In order starting from those standing closest to you.
5) What are the names of the ring bearers / flower girls?
6) What creative elements would you like in your wedding? (First communion, unity candle, etc. – Please see the list options above for details.
7) Do you have a wedding planner?
If you do have a wedding planner, what is their name and contact info?
8) Will the wedding planner be at the rehearsal?
9) What are the dates/times/location of the wedding rehearsal?
10) What are the dates/times/location of the wedding?
11) Will there be a DJ? Mic? Music selection for the ceremony?
12) I normally wear a black suit, is there any specific attire you would like me to dress in?
13) What time would you like me to arrive at the wedding?
14) What announcement, if any, would you like me to make to your guests after the ceremony is over?
15) How do the two of you want to be introduced after your wedding kiss? Mr. and Mrs.…
16) Are you going to write your own vows? If not, which of the options would you prefer I use? (See a list of details above)
17) Which of the ring options would you like me to use? (See list above for more details)
18) Who will have the rings?
19) Who will be giving the bride away?
20) If you don’t have a wedding planner, who have you chosen to be responsible for making sure all of the supplies for the creative element are present at the wedding?
(For example, if you are doing the unity candle, who is going to make sure the lighter and candles are in place. Or, if you are doing communion, who is going to make sure the bread, juice, and cups are there, etc.)
21) Are there any family relationship issues I need to be made aware of?
22) What feelings would you like people to have as they experience your ceremony?
23) How long would you like your wedding ceremony to be?
The average wedding ceremony is about 25 minutes but could be longer if there are more creative elements added.
24) Is there anything that you would like to ask me?
